I am incredibly moved. Tears in my eyes kind of moved. I share this again because I saw this documentary again. And again, I was incredibly moved. https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=3&v=FhwktRDG_aQ
Mister Rogers–a champion of all things children
is becoming a champion for all.
He was, always has been, and continues to be a hero of mine, a hero of many of yours, a definite hero of children. I have turned to him over the years to be reminded of, encouraged and inspired by his quiet, calm reassurance. I have always seen him as a person to aspire to. He is a man of integrity. He spoke and lived with the respectful presence and quiet certainty that has, can, and will hopefully continue to change our world in powerful ways.
I know for some, his slower way of speaking is difficult to listen to. We make jokes about it, we feel a tad uncomfortable at times, we stop listening as a result.
If you haven’t seen when he spoke at a Senate hearing:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J9uIJ-o2yqQ
…then I encourage you to do so.
It speaks (yes, slowly) VOLUMES of how, when we PAUSE and really, truly listen, we can change the world. Mister Rogers did at this Senate hearing; he does still, years after his passing. Despite many of us being uncomfortable with his way of being.
Mister Rogers was a pro when it came to feelings–and being comfortable in all feelings–yours, mine, his. Hence, despite many adults feeling odd around his slow, measured self–he has made the kind of positive impact that is expanding in infinite ways.
He can be a lesson in patience. He can be the role-model for the kind of authenticity we need more of. He can show all of us what can be deeply meaningful and important for any and all relationships. We can chuckle about it. We can look the other way. And yet, Mister Rogers? He stays steady and certain in all that is Right and Good for children. For us.
I am grateful he is, long after his passing, becoming a shining example of the love, light, and goodness so essential for living well.
“…each child, if you truly listen to him or her, is a universe of thought and feeling and what we owe every one of them is to hear who, exactly, they are. That’s how you build a sane society.” (Mister Rogers)
“He is needed because of his quiet calm reassurance, love and how he helps you manage your feelings–even hard ones like anger, fear, and grief.” (Reviewer)
“…if we make feelings mentionable and manageable…(a child can have) the good feeling of control…” (Mister Rogers)
“.. .it’s an invitation for somebody to be close to you. The greatest thing we can do is to help somebody know they are loved and capable of loving.” (Mister Rogers)
“…it is essential for us to make ‘goodness’ a foundation.”
(Mister Rogers)
Thank you, Mister Rogers, for continuing to radiate the love, light, compassion, and genuine care we all need more of. May we all be lifted so we can lift others along our way.
For that is what this really is all about–growing
ourselves in such a way we can be the one to lift another in times of need; to be the one receptive to another’s care and compassion so we can be lifted.
You know, it really does take a village of caring neighbors.
Won’t you be my neighbor?
Alice
Author and Parent Coach
www.justaskalice.org
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